Difference Between Lion and A Chief Justice


This funny title is quite a serious matter in my life. I want to be a lion at home and out in the world. My children feel uncomfortable if I behave like a lion at home, why?

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Who doesn’t know “a man is a social animal” but every quote is neither forever nor it is applicable universally. Either it requires amendment or needs to be further elaborated. Need of the time is that it should be amended as “A Man Is Not A Lion“. I will give you just two reasons:

  1. Every human expects to be honoured, provided he deserves it.

  2.  Everyone of us wishes that justice must be done with him, provided he delivers the same to others.

Majority of us are self-centered, a basic human instinct like in animals. If I behave like a lion outside home, my spouse and children feel proud but when I behave similar within home, they feel uncomfortable for the following reasons:

  • On top, if I ask my child to refrain from smoking, I must not smoke myself. It is just an example which encompasses each and every unacceptable act of mine which is reflected in my children and I wouldn’t have any right to stop them doing the same.

  • One can never be perfect or ideal, if I am quite close to it, even then I cannot dictate even a single decision of mine to all the four children uniformly. This is the point where justice is needed and the justice is not a reward or punishment but it begins with proving myself first to be a deserving candidate for any declaration like “don’t tell a lie

“I must make myself accountable for each and every action of my life if I wish my children to be obedient. Justice seen is called Justice done”.

 

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A Lighthouse in A Pile of Trash


It needs just a single vertical bar of equal length to make a + to any -, but it is not that easy. Try to learn from the child in this photo:

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I could not learn above technique till I started following My Virtual Mentor in 2014. Whenever I face depressive moments, I receive an email with a blog and I am out of that pile of trash, feeling garlanded just like the child in photo. It was not still so easy as it looks like because you cannot build a tower without plinth. It requires a strong will to make yourself a different person, if circumstances all around are pulling you towards negativity. Your will is like muscles of your arms or legs which cannot become strong enough in few days at gym. I sustained positivity for three months, broke down, taken to hospital unconscious and was diagnosed with EIS (Excessive Information Syndrome) by a Medical Board constituted of a Neurologist, Cardiologist, Psychologist and a Psychiatrist. The hospital was one of the best in the country and so were the specialists. Unfortunately three newly added medicines hit the disease in a wrong manner and converted it into state of hallucination. I used my prerogative to quit these medicines, provided feedback to doctors and started completing my unfinished book

You will be amazed that I had to rewrite the whole book as it was written with more percentage of negativity based information. The blogs of My Virtual Mentor started changing my concept which ultimately added a vertical line to my negativity based mindset. As said “where there is a will, there is a way”, so many other vertical lines like Michele Cushatt, Bryan Hutchinson, Jeff Goins, Randy Hartman and so many more started adding to my negative line mindset. I feel so proud of having so many coaches and fellows around me to help making my life happier than before, better late than never.

“Negative Bar {-} makes your life a termite ridden tree. Try to cross it with an equal vertical bar to make it Positive {+}, re-structuring your life to a Heavenly Happy Green Lighthouse”  

You Cannot Drift My Conviction With Money


I always believed in my own conviction “You can do anything if you are determined“. My personal examples of achievements are for my soul’s satisfaction and may not inspire you, but you can follow me if you are convinced with my conviction “Might is Always Right” where I mentioned three components of Might.

  1. Physical Power

  2. Mental Power

  3. Financial Power

In present era there is a tug of war going on between No.1 (Physical Power) and No.3 (Financial Power), which is normal and No.2 (Mental Power) used to play a role of balancing factor. Unfortunately this balancing factor is losing its authority by aroma of currency:

stock-photo-shovel-up-money-studio-photography-of-american-moneys-of-hundred-dollar-184487681Though it has happened many times in history of my country and every time Physical Power won the tug of war, consequently country broke apart and a blame game is still ON, instead of resolving the matter with the authority of Mental Power. This lack of resolve has once again shifted the Power Centre in favour of Physical Power of the country. This time upcoming Power Centre is using its wisdom along with previous experience to safeguard the sovereignty, solidarity and the security of the country. It does not mean that I intend to drift from my own conviction “Might is Always Right” just because of aroma of currency but:

“Yes the Power Center is shifting towards Physical Power and will be disastrous if Mental Power is not sufficiently mixed into chemical compound of Might. The clouds of WWIII are already above this region where I dwell”  

“We cannot change the Universal Truth but manipulation with wisdom can delay Dooms Day”

 

 

Anniversary Can be Happy Or Sad But A Day Can Be Both


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We can commemorate a day as Happy or Sad. It depends what happened on that specific day as it is a day in the past, we call Anniversary. Sometimes it is possible that a day brings Sorrow of the past but Happiness of the present. What would you say on such a Day?

Ambreen
(Picture courtesy by Agha Habib Official Photographer PIA)

Today is definitely a sad day for me and my children as my wife Ambreen Ali expired on 1st. June, 2001. I can never claim that we lived a happy life as a whole because one cannot stay happy after telling the Truth especially to his wife. All my fast friends used to advise me not to tell all the truth of life for smooth sailing as they themselves experienced it being my seniors as married professionals. I never agreed and suffered for about fourteen years. One fine evening at the…

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Anniversary Can be Happy Or Sad But A Day Can Be Both


We can commemorate a day as Happy or Sad. It depends what happened on that specific day as it is a day in the past, we call Anniversary. Sometimes it is possible that a day brings Sorrow of the past but Happiness of the present. What would you say on such a Day?

Ambreen
(Picture courtesy by Agha Habib Official Photographer PIA)

Today is definitely a sad day for me and my children as my wife Ambreen Ali expired on 1st. June, 2001. I can never claim that we lived a happy life as a whole because one cannot stay happy after telling the Truth especially to his wife. All my fast friends used to advise me not to tell all the truth of life for smooth sailing as they themselves experienced it being my seniors as married professionals. I never agreed and suffered for about fourteen years. One fine evening at the dinner table she said “there is no clash between us since months, why?” I asked her in return and she confessed that the only reason she has experienced is that she has blind faith in me now. Rest of life we lived were so great for about eleven years that I am sad each and every moment but try to neutralise with “My Truthful Victory”

Today is also a beginning of Happy Day. My first day of new job in “Community Times Canada“. I am not confused to deal with today, rather trying to make my children understand:

“TRY TO MAKE EVERY TODAY A FUTURE HAPPY ANNIVERSARY  JUST BY TELLING THE TRUTH TO LIVE A VICTORIOUS LIFE”